However, the way to find out will either be to ask her directly what she’s looking for, or by her actions.If she doesn’t want to go out with you, and prefers to meet up at either her place or yours, then she’s looking for something casual.
Lucia: They want someone with little to no baggage – someone who isn’t seeing his children every other weekend and has a lot of available time.
They’re looking for someone who isn’t going to try to control them, who is good in bed, has stamina and endurance and a great body.
The ‘cougar’ community has followed the recent influx of dating sites and apps on the market and there are a plethora of options, to choose from.
So if you are open-minded about age, whether you are seeking a life partner or short-term companionship, compatibility can come in all ages.
Lucia was kind of enough to spend some time answering some key questions about Cougar dating: Lucia: There is little to no drama when dating a Cougar.
She’s emotionally mature and has neither the time nor desire to play games.
If a Cougar is looking for a long term relationship, she usually prefers no more than a 10-15 year age difference.
Lucia: Keep in mind you’re not dealing with a “girl” in her 20s, but an older woman who wants to be respected.
Lastly, if you may be ridiculed by your family, friends, society Lucia: Younger men grew up in a generation where they see a woman as an equal and not some that they need to dominate.
They have a bright eyed, bushy tailed attitude towards dating and are not as jaded as an older man would be, so they are still idealistic when it comes to love and romance.
As stated above in disadvantages for younger men dating Cougars, other people will have a problem with the relationship.